I am housewife i would like to know from independent women?

ok my story is that my parents made me get married when i was young because they thought i mite become independent and my culture is a cut throat strict. parents even kill their daughters for having boyfriends etc. i am in such a bad relationship i was expecting better husband but obviously arrange marriage they show their jerky side later on he doesn't let me work etc i have a baby with him. so for you independent women who work make money raised by open minded parents why are in a bad relationship. when u have a choice why are u crying for loosers. u have the money to support urself have parents for ur support. unlike me for the time being i am stuck. why are u doing this to urself. go out there enjoy life. that;s all lol :0 i am miserable i hate to see u guys miserable too